5 Things Every Man Should Do To Get Out of the Dog House
Friday, 04 December 2009 09:17 | 
Author: Sheila Dollarsby |
Since the beginning of time it seems that men and women have had their difference in perspective and perception. The idea that men are from Mars and women are from Venus is not at all a new concept. And it seems that no matter how hard anyone tries, men can't seem to help but annoy, enrage, anger, upset, or piss off their women. As the saying goes, "Hell hath no fury like that of a woman scorned." So if you have recently made your wife, fianc, or girlfriend mad, the following are some actions you should take to get yourself out of the dog house!
Since the beginning of time it seems that men and women have had their difference in perspective and perception. The idea that men are from Mars and women are from Venus is not at all a new concept. And it seems that no matter how hard anyone tries, men can't seem to help but annoy, enrage, anger, upset, or piss off their women. As the saying goes, "Hell hath no fury like that of a woman scorned." So if you have recently made your wife, fianc, or girlfriend mad, the following are some actions you should take to get yourself out of the dog house!
1. Send Her Flowers. Flowers are not guaranteed to fix all of your problems, but they are a great place to start, especially if the woman in your life is not speaking to you at the moment. Flowers are a sure fire way to soften up any woman's heart. For extra effect, make sure that you send them to her at her job where plenty of people are going to see and make sure that the arrangement is extravagant. This public display will warm her heart and put her in the right mood for talking to you. Also make sure you send a note with the flowers that truly expresses your sincerest apology.
2. Buy Her Jewelry. Jewelry is definitely a favorite with women. No matter what kind of jewelry piece you decide to buy her, the most important thing is that it's real. If you can't afford real at the moment, then don't even bother with buying her jewelry at this point. Remember, jewelry is not going to be the solution to your problems; it is just a way to spark an open dialogue about the real issues going on in your relationship.
3. Wait on Her Hand And Foot. Spend a Saturday or Sunday catering to your lady's every desire. Cook her a gourmet meal, bring her breakfast in bed, run her a hot bubble bath with oils and candles everywhere, give her a massage, rub her feet, carry her around, and make her feel like a queen. Women need to know that you care about their feelings and this is a great way to show that you do before you begin resolving the issues at hand.
4. Take Her On A Surprise Trip. Book a trip to an exotic location for just the two of you. Make sure that you have your lady clear a weekend so that you are sure to not be intruding on any of her plans. Have her mother, sister, or best friend pack a bag for her, or don't pack a bag at all and let her go shopping when you get to your destination. Pick her up from work on a Friday afternoon and take her to the airport for start of a romantic vacation for two. She will not only be completely surprise, but will definitely be ready to talk and let you back into her heart.
5. Give Her Something She's Always Wanted. Women often talk about things that they want but have never gotten. If you're lady has ever done this, then it's your job to make her dream come true. Bottom line, get back into your woman's heart and you will have the tools you need to not only resolve your issues, but to get out of the dog house too!
Since the beginning of time it seems that men and women have had their difference in perspective and perception. The idea that men are from Mars and women are from Venus is not at all a new concept. And it seems that no matter how hard anyone tries, men can't seem to help but annoy, enrage, anger, upset, or piss off their women. As the saying goes, "Hell hath no fury like that of a woman scorned." So if you have recently made your wife, fianc, or girlfriend mad, the following are some actions you should take to get yourself out of the dog house!
1. Send Her Flowers. Flowers are not guaranteed to fix all of your problems, but they are a great place to start, especially if the woman in your life is not speaking to you at the moment. Flowers are a sure fire way to soften up any woman's heart. For extra effect, make sure that you send them to her at her job where plenty of people are going to see and make sure that the arrangement is extravagant. This public display will warm her heart and put her in the right mood for talking to you. Also make sure you send a note with the flowers that truly expresses your sincerest apology.
2. Buy Her Jewelry. Jewelry is definitely a favorite with women. No matter what kind of jewelry piece you decide to buy her, the most important thing is that it's real. If you can't afford real at the moment, then don't even bother with buying her jewelry at this point. Remember, jewelry is not going to be the solution to your problems; it is just a way to spark an open dialogue about the real issues going on in your relationship.
3. Wait on Her Hand And Foot. Spend a Saturday or Sunday catering to your lady's every desire. Cook her a gourmet meal, bring her breakfast in bed, run her a hot bubble bath with oils and candles everywhere, give her a massage, rub her feet, carry her around, and make her feel like a queen. Women need to know that you care about their feelings and this is a great way to show that you do before you begin resolving the issues at hand.
4. Take Her On A Surprise Trip. Book a trip to an exotic location for just the two of you. Make sure that you have your lady clear a weekend so that you are sure to not be intruding on any of her plans. Have her mother, sister, or best friend pack a bag for her, or don't pack a bag at all and let her go shopping when you get to your destination. Pick her up from work on a Friday afternoon and take her to the airport for start of a romantic vacation for two. She will not only be completely surprise, but will definitely be ready to talk and let you back into her heart.
5. Give Her Something She's Always Wanted. Women often talk about things that they want but have never gotten. If you're lady has ever done this, then it's your job to make her dream come true. Bottom line, get back into your woman's heart and you will have the tools you need to not only resolve your issues, but to get out of the dog house too!
About the Author:
Sheila Dollarsby and her husband do their fair share of arguing. When he is really sorry though he will usually order an arrangement of flowers from 1800 Flowers. He does not use the flowers from 1800 Flowers as a way to solve problems, but simply as a way to apologize and open the door to healthy communication and conflict resolution.
