Friday, 04 December 2009 08:23 | Author: Chase Chandler |
Theres something that often happens when youre out playing the seduction game, that is, when youre actively looking out for girls you think youd like to hook-up with. Talking to women is most likely goal number one on your guy's to do list. Then, you see the girls you want to approach. They are in a group and one girl stands out in particular to you. You have gotten the courage to talk to the girls. Something doesn't seem right though.
by ChaseChandler
Theres something that often happens when youre out playing the seduction game, that is, when youre actively looking out for girls you think youd like to hook-up with. Talking to women is most likely goal number one on your guy's to do list. Then, you see the girls you want to approach. They are in a group and one girl stands out in particular to you. You have gotten the courage to talk to the girls. Something doesn't seem right though.
All her friends are very approachable but the girl you were focusing on isn't giving you much action to work with.
Take a step back. Realize that it's not the end of the world and that you are her type. The reason she is acting like this is because you focused your attention to her and in turn boosted her ego.
She gets the feeling of importance and now the ball is in her court. She doesn't want to lose her value her friends see her so she doesn't respond as some girl who's easy. She'd rather keep her value with her friends than show her interest in you.
At this point, you should change your approach and solve this problem by using the Deflection Theory. This is when you take that interest and attention from the girl you are interested in and focus that onto one or more of her girlfriends.
The Deflection Theory is when you take that interest and attention from the girl you are interested in and focus that energy onto one or more of her girlfriends. By doing so you stop giving her the attention she was getting and is going to start to wonder why you arent giving that attention anymore to her.
Wouldn't you rather prefer to be in this situation where girls are seeking YOUR approval instead if you trying to get THEIR approval.
This technique makes her try to get your attention instead of the old you trying to get the girl. Use this technique from Guy Gets Girl to increase your chances of being successful in the dating scene and to get the girl.
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